I usually start games on maximum difficulty. I found that after years of this practice that most games are horribly boring at 'normal' or lower settings. It was somewhat painful at first, but like every form of exercise it became easier with time.
Game difficulty needs to effect every aspect gameplay that involves skills. So speech, stealth, etc... need to be more challenging on harder difficulty settings!
I couldn't agree with you more sir. I couldn't stand playing ANY game on normal or lower. I beat mass effect 2 on insanity and it was the best gaming experience I had ever had. I am looking forward to my skyrim experience. I have never been so hyped up for a game in my life.
EDIT: and the hardest difficulty on oblivion was almost impossible until I learned how to dupe my rings on. Lol. I had like 500 rings on at once. Hahaha
I believe the slider has been removed?

So it's going to be like the fallout set-up? I would much prefer that. Any proof?