How do i kill falmer, ive been killed by them multiple times and i really want to see the rest of the dungeon but falmer obliterate me everytime

lol, just try again.

get out, level more, get stronger, come back.

You should post your level and combat type (battlemage, warrior, assasin, rogue, wizard, etc) to get advice on how to kill said falmer.

As a rogue, they fall down in one shot to my exquisite elven dagger (20 damage). I named it the Soulblade.

*pats soultrap dagger*

They're ridiculously easy to sneak attack if you're into that sort of thing.

I was actually wondering what I had to do to fight a falmer and not just one-shot them. Run up and punch one in the face I guess. Then one of them managed to notice me before I noticed him and he scared the living crap out of me so I continued to sneak attack them.

Well... when I light them on fire, they tend to die.

Sneak + Bow = Dead Falmer. The only ones that have ever given me trouble are the boss level ones, and even then the only one that got me close to death had a Centurion as back up.

im a guy who wears heavy armor and has a spell in one hand and a mace/axe in the other

a companion helps, also by then at least have the fire breath shout. That does help. healing potions and restoration in a pinch worked for me as well.

Yep. I brought Lydia with me when I fought the Falmer under Makarath. We still got killed a couple times when they massed on us and I was out of shouts, but we made it out ok in the end.

Falmer are blind, so that's one possibility. Move quietly and they should have a hard time finding you...and starting a battle with a sneak attack can only be a good thing!

However, i have to say that fighting falmer and those weird insects has to be one of the creepiest/hardest normal mob fights i've had. They swarm on you, and you never know where they're coming from...super creepy!

I had Janessa with me on Expert and still managed. It became difficult during a particular quest that I won't mention when the Falmer started using Dwarven Arrows (not sure why they call them Dwarven arrows when they should be called Dwemer Arrows). I had to fight off about 4 Falmer servants and 3 falmers all at once as an assassin (Thank Janessa for having horrible sneak and Bethesda for creating horrible companion AI). Took me two tries but I did get it on the second try... although it left me with no more healing potions.