then theres those whoget hit take 2 steps and give up searching for me and repeat till dead
That happens to me, too. That's what makes me think there's a bug. Or, maybe it's part stagger and part bug.
I'm playing a ninja themed character, so the occasional stealth kill is nice, but I'm level 5 with a low blades skill and can pretty much take out anything without a scratch (at about 25 damage a hit) as long I start with a sneak attack. Has anyone modded to address this? I think something like instant detection after a hit would address the issue. That way they can still be stunned and staggered, but I can't just keep stacking sneak attacks on them.