Normally, this wouldn't be a problem, i'd just find another. However, the follower in question was wearing Ebony Mail and Volendrung, which I had gave him. And now he's disappeared. And he isn't at either of his spawn points. (It's Kharjo, a khajiit warrior who travels with the trade caravan that goes between Dawnstar and Riften, he wasn't at either.) I didn't tell him to wait anywhere, and he didn't die. Have any of you guys experienced this, and do any of you know a fix?

And i'm on the 360, so console commands aren't an option.

it happened to me with the dog, the guy who sold it to me told me that he would follow me to the oblivion gates amd back or something like that, next thing i know i told him to wait at my house ('cause i was really annoyed by his constant barking) and a couple of quests later a return and he's nowhere to be found, not at my house or his spawn point... not so layal after all

I'm just annoyed at the fact that two daedric artefacts are down the drain. Powerful ones, too.