If you want my opinion drop alteration and pick up enchanting. Don't take lockpicking unless you reaaaallllyy svck at it. For the most part if you are doing magick you won't be sneaking or using much armor at all. Don't invest in light armor perks as they just give you stamina regeneration bonunses and defense. Who needs defense when you summon atronachs to be your meat shield on top of having a follower attract attention? If you must have sneak then do that last. Destruction might even be a waste considering you already have an offensive ranged attack which is archery and you can't cast spells while shooting arrows. Too much time in the menus. If you went conjuration, archery, enchanting, sneak and one handed I can see that being better. It will take a while to get things leveled up and the three I would focus on first are conjuration archery and enchanting. When I get conjuration I don't really rely on armor at that point to be honest. Who needs armor when you aren't getting attacked? Sure, your atronachs will die on occasion but keep pumping points into Magicka and you can keep them coming as they die.
I agree with Killer here. I don't see much point investing in lockpicking if you are playing your style. If you invest in enchanting you can really benefit because of +Magicka and +Magicka Regen enchants. Also there are -% cost to Destro/Conjuration/Other spells. Really A MUST for a mage type char. Otherwise you totally depend on finding loot for your playstyle. You can reduce difficulty right now

Also, what Killer is saying, equip as much of light armor as you can to be fast and enemies cannot approach as easily even in tight dungeons. Summons and followers will make up for lost armor. Elven Armor with enchants is nice for you.
Where is disagree is that Destro is a waste of time. I use both Destro and Archery. Outside this combination rules totally. In dungeons it is not that good but it works if you use tactics. Retreat, set traps (runes), potions, etc...
While "Menu time" is not fun, it is your friend.
- You can kill Giants real easy for example. Mammoths are a joke. Soul Trapping stuff works like a charm.
- You can bombard some camp from Distance even with expensive Fireball until you get Adept perk. Half of enemies will be dead or totally damaged when you enter. Atleast ones that cannot heal themselves. I bombarded Forsworn camp in Whiterun quests for about 5min. Entered and cleaned up with lesser spells and bow. HOTKEYS!
- You can drain mage type enemies with shock. Runes are also VERY good in tight dungeons, etc.
- Do NOT rush. If you rush you will die constantly. Either wait for EVERYTHING to recharge after a battle or pop a potion. But in general take it slow. As a mage you need your magicka and health is not really high and rushing around will get you killed. Trust me, I know.
Skyrim is great for making the most of tactics and using your brain.
- Learn the enemy behaviour:
Melee will chase you constantly. Poisoned bow or some dagger or sword can be used to remove their stamina and do some damage. Risky but can be done if you time it right.
Ranged will... well shower you with arrows and hide. You also try to hide but ALWAYS first clean up melee enemies near you. They will kill you much faster than ranged.
Mages... they are dangerous always. Employ safe distance tactics here and usually you will need to pump out as much dmg you can because they use wards and healing. Enchanted Bows rule against mages.
Anyway, create your own tactics. Don't just rush into the camp or castle. Make a sneak attack with bow for double damage. Bombard. Review the terrain, etc, etc. Sometimes same tactic will work and sometimes you will have to improvise or make a new one. It's a free world.
Some tips:
- Craft yourself a nice bow. Enchant it with for ex. Take Frost and Stamina damage. (the frost enchant).
- If you want, make another bow with Paralyze or other useful attribute. I have 3 bows

- Activate Mage Stone and play like a madman with destro spells and push your Destro to 50. That is the critical point. Take Adept Half Magicka perk. But even Apprentice level is good (Firebolt, etc). But 50 is kinda critical if you go destro.
- With all this in mind, enchant the armor (or buy...) to maximize dmg output but also magicka value and regen. Try to balance it as you see fit. Put Speech amulet and buy a damn Grand Gem. Invest in your future.
- Gold is there to be spent and not hoarded unless you are saving to buy a house, horse or similar. Otherwise SPEND. You will get it back from loot and quests. Having 20k gold on you serves what purpose? But of coruse, always have about 2-2.5k on you if you see some good item at vendors. Anyway, I always have about 4k now on myself. Sometimes I go very low but I return it fast with loot or quests or selling enchanted stuff and potions. Gold won't save your life. but Grand Gem slapped on Amu or Ring for Major health or Magicka or magicka cost reduction for a magic school will help dramatically.
- Shout as much and often you can. Employ different shouts depending on situation but 3 word Relentless Force is ALWAYS good. You can knock a giant down for about 4 seconds. It also silences and interrupts mages when casting.
I can continue with this tips/tricks but I won't spoil the game totally for you. Just play and enjoy. Read the books (some are really fun and entertaining). Generally, enjoy the giant Skyrim world and try to be in RPG state of mind when playing.
If you have some serious issue I can try to help if I know how. Just remember this:
- Time is on your side
- Invest in the future of your char
- Forage. If you play Skyrim 5 hours a day, take 1 hour for gathering various stuff. From plants to hunting and mining. It is not boring and you will discover various stuff around the world while running around and collecting stuff.
- Do not use cheats of any kind. Never even if it really tempting or something small. Forget them. Use in case of a serious bug but that is a different story. Use some cheat even once and you have ruined the game totally. It's done. You will just continue to use them and eventually progress to mods that give you everything.
GL, HF