Ok I married Borghak the Steel Heart and there were people at the wedding, Jenassa, Lydia, her sister, and some other people I had met. But when the ceremony is over everyone left including Borgha and now I cant find her. I checked riften, the fort she was originally at, and Breezehome my only house even after waiting 48 hours. She also has full dragon plate enchanted and an enchanted war axe I made to deck her out with. Anyone else know where to look?

She just wanted your armor and now ran away to Morrowind ;D

sounds like you hooked a gold digger

slapahoe

Happen to me as well. I found her in the town I met her in, remember she has to walk all the way back home so wait 24 hrs in game time and she should be there.

Shouldve known it was coming when se refused to have a prenup...

Theirs a quest where this woman ran away from her husband to be a bandit leader. I find the possible similarity... amusing, you just might kill her one day.

I instantly talked to Mjoll and said I have a house in Whiterun. She went there straight away.

For some odd reason, a guy name Aewen or Aevon or whatever followed Mjoll into my house! MY house! With my wife! *rage mode*. Now his body can be seen floating in the small stream of water just next top the fall-bridge outside whiterun. :spotted owl:

Did she fly away? Mine did.

Known Bug (from wiki):

A bug can occur during the wedding ceremony at the Temple of Mara. After Maramal pronounces the player and the player's NPC of choice married, the NPC may start walking toward the temple's exit before Maramal is done speaking and player can move. If the NPC leaves the temple before the player can speak to him/her about where they will live, then the NPC will disappear. They will reappear if they are part of a quest, like Ysolda in "A Night to Remember". However, after you say "I do" if you exit the speech and click on your spouse fast enough before he/she walks out the door, he/she will not disappear. If you fail to do so, try going to a bed, sleep for a few days and then head back to the temple. After a couple of days, she will go back to the temple. If she still hasn't shown up, wait about 4 hours and she will eventually pop up. Even if you tell them to move into your house they may or may not actually be there. They will be at their previous house instead. Another way to deal with this is to simply leave and go about your business for a few days, then return to the Temple of Mara. Your spouse should be inside and once you ask them where you want to live, everything will go back to normal.