I just join the forum. I just have my enchanting skill up to 100 and in the process of enchanting my gears and I need some advise on choosing between the two enchanting options for my sword. Does anyone have experience on using Paralyze on their weapons. Thank you.

Do both, get one option on a sword, and the other option on another, See for yourself which you prefer. My guess is the paralyze option would be better.

Paralyze rarely kicks in. Maybe there is some resistance check involved but I only notice it about 1/3 hits.

I no longer use Paralyze on any items. For Range Weapons they fall to the floor and often means behind cover so I can't shot them anymore. For Melee I much rather go with Absorb Stamina.