http://www.fallout3nexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=2654 can be adapted to exclude stealth or make it more or less situationally applicable. The additional gear is also well done.
http://www.fallout3nexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=10183 are often used too; so is the http://www.fallout3nexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=12136.
What is and isn't lore-friendly is up to debate, of course.