This is just my opinion but a lot of whining in this forum is because of ex WoW players. That game really taught people how to whine in forums. Whatever in game problem you have, just go to forum and cry VERY loudly untill the devs get tired of your crying. I mean its so obvious when you read this forum. Even the words people use when they want "multiplayer arena" or make "deathknight builds" or say "night elves"(meaning dunmer). I bet most of the whiners used to be those children that scream and yell when they want something and their parents just gave in everytime because they lacked the guts to say no.
Lot of people actually read these forums(yes, its true!!) to find usefull information about the game or read about funny experiences from other players but the constant whining is like a wave of [censored] that just drowns all the good stuff.