I wanna marry camilla from riverwood so i can have a house there, riverwood being my favourite town, but do the containers in spouses houses respawn?

its a good way to find out whether shes being cheating on you.

Good Lord no - Stash your loot somewhere safe!

Wife will end up with half your loot using any half decent lawyer - she will get the house on top of 50% in Solitude I believe.

TIP* If you fire your Huscarle, divorce can be delayed, but only by a little.