My experience with invisibility changing mods is limited to SM, and it works for my purposes. I generally use invisibility only when I want to either get somewhere uninterrupted or if I want to closely observe creatures/npcs. The SM ini also has an option to allow Vampires to see through invisibility and chameleon.
Not too long ago I was observing while invisible and suddenly a message in top right appeared that "so and so had seen through my disguise", or something, and I was revealed to said so and so.