basically what i want is for my character to be the ultimate badass, i don't want magic or wont be using it much anyway. Massive sword, shield, bow and arrow and i want to cut down any enemy that comes near me. Basically he needs to be tough, strong and good with a weapon.
I think you would want to be an Orc, Nord or Redguard. Heavy armor, most likely.
You'll have to choose between either a "massive" two-handed weapon, or a smaller one-handed weapon with a shield. That's up to you.
Focus on using your combat skills (one or two handed, block, archery) in order to raise those skills and not ancillary ones (like speech).
Use the Warrior stone.
Use the smithing skill and perks to increase your armor and weapon damage.
Smithing can be abused by leveling it very quickly, so decide if you want t exploit this or not. (I recommend not)
Enchanting combined with smithing can really make you overly strong, but you seem to want to avoid magic stuff, so I'd ignore enchanting.