completely agree. THis is also a result of there only going on quest "hub" for each faction. This means you can go straight between quests in a "rush" which isn't really a rush, but merely the natural progression through the quests. If oblivion did something right, it was, like morrowind, have us go around to different areas, and in that way encounter other quests and tasks on our way.Here it's "go do x and come back" till you're suddenly the leader after 5-6 quests (or what feels like it).
I've said this before, but I'm really disapointed with Skyrims guild, the pacing is horrible.