Why do mods have to do everything for us? Every time there's a problem or whatever, people say "Mods mods mods".
I follow you, I do, but this is the way of the Rim.
Mods play an extremely large role in many Bethesda games.
OT: I actually like the "blandness" so to speak. Or kind of at least. I don't like when things get too "flashy", or "pew pew" or whatever. I like the gritty non-epic stuff, and usually end up wearing beggars' clothes. Did so in Oblivion, and already am in Skyrim.