I see it′s like the game vs game thing we had going on; we each have our preference but we all have fun
Exactly. And in the case of these TES games, we have the chance to try it both ways, and decide what works best for us. It's nice to have the choice.
I favor the third person view. Like Renee, I came up through table-top gaming before PC (although my gang of friends was more likely to be interested in playing strategy games like Risk than D&D
), and got into CRPGs in the 80s. I imagined the blocky little sprites on the screen as being a lot better looking than they were, too!
I tend to agree with Pseron's outlook on this; I don't see the character as "I," but rather as "he" or "she." I feel privileged to go along as a witness and occasional adviser (not that my characters always follow my advice!) I only drop into first person viewpoint when the gameplay situation demands it. In addition to marksman (which I do manage to do in 3rd person), it's difficult to aim targeted spells while the character is in a crouched sneaking posture, and it's the only practical way to move anything around.
I wish that somebody could come up with a parallax-correcting over-the-shoulder camera/crosshair mod.