What I'm looking for is opinions on, based on your experience, what works best together to achieve a certain sort of game. Here's what I'm looking for in my modded game:
1) A bleak, unforgiving wasteland - "Fellout" is not for me. Unlike many, I WANT the gameworld to be an ugly, destroyed place - full of brutal violence and hopelessness. This also means no "cleaned-up" NPCs or textures. Everyone and everything should be covered in dirt, rust and grime. There should be a polluted haze in the air, making all areas seem sickly and inhospitable. Opinions on best weather, shader, texture, and/or miscellanious mods to achieve this would be greatly appreciated.
2) A challenging, desperate gameplay experience - one big problem I had with vanilla was the over-abundance of guns - where's all that ammo coming from? I'd like to constantly be scrounging for ammo, and actually have a use for my melee. HOWEVER!!! I don't want "eat and sleep" mods - just not my style. In that way I differ from many immersionists. I am familiar with the main gameplay overhauls - looking for opinions on what works best for people.
3) Some added realism tweaks - more people around the wasteland, more realistic settlements (there's no way a town with no walls would survive their first raider attack). Maybe less raiders in general (unrealistic). Again, I know there are many mods for that sort of thing, just wanted people's input on their own favorites.
I will absolutely be dikeing around with my own mod list, but anyone who cares to throw their two cents in the ring could potentially save me a ton of time, seeing as I've never actually "gotten my hands dirty" with mods. Thanks!