Basically I have 4 main problems...

1. some of the wolves are invisible... I only know they are wolves from the sounds they make.

2. Some of the wildlife stand still, unless I attack them... then they start to move

3. When I attack/kill something, it turns green... like bright green. Not sure why...

4. Some enemy's do not attack me, they just stand there...

I strongly suggest to read the troubleshooting guide in the opening post of the FCOM thread. http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1364664-relz-fcom-convergence/
Questions about the mod should be posted there instead of cluttering the forum with independent threads.

Ok thank you

Right off the bat, it sounds like the MMM bsa is not installed correctly. But questions on FCOM are better posted in the FCOM Thread, along with your load order. (There you will also find detailed instructions in the first post with regard to installation.)