And what's that about parenthood? I would associate parenthood with subcreation and the normal movement from divine to profane. How was that in the cards anyways? And what does this have to do with the Heart versus a different receptacle.
The dwarves didn't enjoy being parents of perpetually weaker spirits, did they? So what did Kagrenac's Architects want to do about that? They uncovered the Heart and made a Mantella. They theorized a way to erase all the levels of creation, without sacrificing themselves to produce the divine self they wanted.
They would use Lorkhan's Heart and the tools to re-create the moment of creation his heart was removed. Except their plan failed. Kagrenac didn't incorporate the Mantella, and the Dwemer were simply absorbed. Sacrificing their souls was not the intent, that would be grand theatre. Numidium was an interface, or a shield meant to be reused.
The Dwemer did not know love. They did not want to suffer to create their god. Again, hence the elaborate plan with the tools and Lorkhan's heart, to fill the Mantella with that stone's creatia. Whereas Talos knew love. He sacrificed himself, Zurin, to fill the Mantella. The Dwemer were absorbed into a Tower with no possipoint.