Really, though, my problem with this theory is that the event isn't in any way characteristic of Molag Bal. It's just two quests that use the same animation and a similar pattern. I suppose you could draw parallels in terms of literary criticism, but I don't think they are enough to move it into the realm of lore. None of Molag's identifying characteristics (his violation of mortality and human kind via the creation of vampires, his seduction of Vivec and the monsters resulting from that union, his spheres of graqe and scheming, etc.) are present in the act, or in Ulfric. My Dragonborn does the same thing anytime she beats down a cowering bandit begging for mercy.
To put it another way: me posting a Cyrus story doesn't give me the chance to become Michael Kirkbride.
Post a Cyrus story, become an author who draws on MK's work. Post any sort of story, become an author, like MK, but the Cyrus story puts you a bit of a leg up on 'channeling/paying homage to' MK then, say, a story about minor beaurocrats getting in over their heads in exotic locales.
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is literary criticism. There were similar patterns, like you mentioned, in between the two quests. That's enough reason to discuss the potential similarities between Molag Bal and Ulfric. How far those similarities gois, now, a matter for debate and personal opinion, but insomuch as you agree that those similarities are present and at least partway compelling, then the OP's original premise still holds. If you want to mantle a Prince like Molag Bal, then beating some guy down until they're on their knees and helpless, and then flat out slaughtering them for the sake of gratifying your own ego, isn't such a bad start, which makes Ulfric's act an illustrative example for some of the steps involved for mantling.
(Yes, the previous statement assumes that Ulfric is in this whole 'become High King and start a new legend' game for the sake of his own ego, rather than the good of Skyrim. YMMV)
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