Here is my load order:
Oblivion.esm
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp
UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp
Oblivion Citadel Door Fix.esp
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp
aaaBorsBedrolls.esp
Living Economy.esp
Living Economy - Items.esp
Cutthroat Merchants.esp
Crowded Roads.esp
Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
Cheat Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp
Mart's Monster Mod for OOO.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Additional Enemy NPC Vars.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse Imperial Armor.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse Creature Skins.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Zombies for Body Meshes.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Durability & Damage.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Less Bone Loot.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Less Rats.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Roads.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Spawn Rates - Reduced Reduced.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Vindasel.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp
hackdirtabyss.esp
JADImperialApartments01Temple.esp
JADImperialApartments02Temple.esp
JADImperialApartments03Temple.esp
Jagnot- Imperial City Library V1.3.esp
LetThePeopleDrink.esp
Knights.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - City Defences.esp
Harvest [Flora].esp
Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp
Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 DT.esp
Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.3 DT.esp
Quest Award Leveller.esp
Quest Award Leveller - Knights of the Nine.esp
RealHungerv1.4.esp
RealisticFatigue.esp
RealSleep.esp
Denock Arrows.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Resized Races.esp
bgBalancingEVCore.esp
bgMagicEV.esp
bgMagicItemSigil.esp
bgMagicEVStartspells.esp
bgMagicBonus.esp
bgMagicEVAddEnVar.esp
bgMagicEVPaperChase.esp
bgMagicAlchemy.esp
bgMagicPotionNumberSoulGemValue.esp
bgBalancingOptionalLessHealth.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalClasses.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalFangs.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalMoreEyes.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalNPCDiversity, Beautification.esp
bgBalancingEVLAMEAddition.esp
bgBalancingEVLAMEGlue.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalNPCDiversityLAME.esp
bgBalancingEVOptionalSeamReducerHighElfFix.esp
bgMagicEVShader.esp
bgMagicShaderLifeDetect.esp
bgMagicLightningbolt.esp
Archery Rebalance.esp
Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael.esp
Natural_Vegetation_by_Max_Tael.esp
Natural_Water_by_Max_Tael.esp
Natural_Weather_by_Max_Tael.esp
RealisticLeveling.esp
All help is greatly appreciated. :brokencomputer: