I want to try and avoid any spoilers at all costs preferably, so will there be a forum dedicated to people in the same position as me, where we can still discuss Skyrim and speculate, without actual game info coming into account, thanks guys.

I'm sure once the game is released there will be a Cheats, Hints and Spoilers Section, just like in the OB, MW and FO forums :shrug:

As mentioned above, but remember, you still come here at your own risk. Topics might even be considered spoilers for some people :shrug: