I just find it hard to play...as a BoS Paladin I would probably NOT take any quests...after all I they declined to see it Veronica's way and do not want to change. So what would I do? Go into vaults grab tech, find energy weapons etc and turn them into the quartermaster? I just find it tough to RP as a neutral guy who is not helping anyone because that means I cant do anything in game but hunt mobs lol..

you can side with Mr. House, or Yes Man.

Siding with Mr House wouldnt work. He wants to eliminate the BOS, and the BOS wants to take all of his tech.

Allying with Yes Man would work though.

How to play one? First of all you need to make some decisions.

Laser or Plasma?

Laser - Tri-Beam Laser Rifle

Plasma - Plasma Caster

Alignment

Good - Roleplay as an East Coaster.

Neutral - Be a West Coaster.

Evil - Be a disciple of General Barnasky of the Mid-West.

No matter what, go with Yes Man.