Yea, which is why I said it doesn't really matter...
If it doesn't matter, why'd you bring it up?
And in fact, it does matter, because the Chimer, Altmer and would-be-Orsimer were all the same. Since then, the would-be-Orsimer were changed, the Altmer changed themselves deliberately, but the Chimer did not change (well, untill the whole Red Mountain mess), at least not a change we know about. So, the Chimer would still look the most alike the would-be-Orsimer, even if they had "the least in common with them".
Hardly a quality source since she can really appear anyway she wants, sorta like looking at an airbrushed supermodel to see what the average person looks like...
There's the whole "Sotha - Dunmer; Vivec - half/hald; Almalexia - Chimer" theory to take into account as well. You know, she was to proud to wear her the new Dunmer look so she changed herself back into Chimer appearence.
But, yeah, that is kinda right.
That's like, the same thing. And it still doesn't make any difference because you can still look at them to see what the Orcs would have looked like... just take away the feminine snootiness...
Meh the feminine snootiness would probably have been there as well.. Actually, I think the best way to think about the would-be-Orsimer is just some slightly shorter Altmer.
The falmer, if they are not extinct, are incredibly rare, and most likely very wary with humans, considering the two peoples were at war with each other for a very long time, and the nords wiped them out completely, or to an extremely low number. If they are going to be in the game, they will probably have as much exposure as the last dwarf did in Morrowind, most likely.
And I pray to god they won't suddenly have Falmer ruins littered all over the map.
Though one or two, hidden underground somewhere, wouldn't hurt, I suppose.