Here's my load order if it helps:
Active Mod Files:
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00 Oblivion.esm01 Jog_X_Mod.esm02 All Natural Base.esm [Version 1.34]03 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm [Version 5.0]04 Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm [Version 5.0]05 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.72]06 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm [Version 1.34]07 Mart's Monster Mod.esm [Version 3.7b3p3]08 CyrodiilUpgradeResourcePack.esm09 FCOM_Convergence.esm [Version 0.9.9MB3]0A Armamentarium.esm [Version 1.35]0B Artifacts.esm0C Better Cities Resources.esm [Version 5.1.8]0D CURP_Controller.esm** CyrodiilUpgradeResourcePack Vwalk.esp** TNR ALL RACES FINAL.esp** TNR ALL RACES FINAL Vwalk.esp** TNR - ShiveringIsles.esp0E Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.4.1]0F UOPS Additional Changes.esp10 DLCShiveringIsles.esp11 Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.5.0]12 USIPS Additional Changes.esp13 Better Cities .esp [Version 4.7.0]14 Francesco's Creatures and Items Resources.esp [Version 5.0]15 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp [Version 5.0]16 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp [Version 5.0]17 Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp [Version 5.0]++ FCOM_Francescos.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp [Version 0.9.9]18 FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp [Version 0.9.9]19 Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael.esp1A All Natural.esp [Version 1.34]1B All Natural - SI.esp [Version 1.34]++ All Natural - MMM Patch.esp [Version 1.3]1C Immersive Interiors.esp [Version 0.8.1]1D PTAutumnTrees.esp1E OBGE - Liquid Water.esp1F Idle Dialogue.esp [Version 1.3]++ Louder Nirnoot.esp++ Symphony of Violence.esp20 MIS.esp21 MIS New Sounds Optional Part.esp++ Diverse Voices.esp [Version 0.1a]22 Storms & Sound.esp23 Better Rainbows.esp24 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 1.34]25 WindowLightingSystem.esp26 Book Jackets Oblivion.esp27 ClocksOfCyrodiil_BC_OBC_OC_OCLR_Vanilla.esp28 diversegrasses.esp29 SwampGrass.esp2A ImprovedSigns.esp2B PTFallingStars.esp2C RAEVWD New Sheoth.esp [Version 1.7]2D SMTXKhajiitPawsAsAbility_v04RMHGEC.esp** VA_BetterGold.esp2E Enhanced Economy.esp [Version 5.4.3]2F FormID Finder4.esp30 Get Wet.esp31 kuerteeActorDetails.esp32 kuerteeAutoSaveAndTime.esp33 kuerteeCleanUp.esp34 Dynamic Map.esp [Version 2.1.1]35 DLCHorseArmor.esp36 DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.7]37 DLCOrrery.esp38 DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]** DLCOrrery Vwalk.esp39 DLCVileLair.esp3A DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.7]3B DLCMehrunesRazor.esp3C DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]** DLCMehrunesRazor Vwalk.esp3D DLCSpellTomes.esp++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]** Book Jackets DLC.esp** GrimbotsSpellTomes.esp++ MaleBodyReplacerV4.esp++ CM_Better Wine_SI.esp++ FineWeapons.esp3E NexonsArmoryENG.esp3F PureSteelBlade.esp** mz_Shields.esp** mz_Shields_SI.esp** Armamentium female.esp40 XiaNewAmuletsV1.esp41 DLCThievesDen.esp42 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.10]** DLCThievesDen Vwalk.esp43 KDCircletsOOOOptimized - NPC Equip.esp [Version 1.2]++ FCOM_KDCircletsOOOOptimizedNPCEquip.esp [Version 0.9.9]44 Slof's Oblivion Robe Trader.esp45 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.73]46 Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]47 Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp48 FCOM_BobsArmory.esp [Version 0.9.9]49 Loth's Blunt Weapons for Npcs.esp++ FCOM_LothsBluntWeapons.esp [Version 0.9.9]4A Oblivion WarCry EV.esp [Version 1.09]4B FCOM_WarCry.esp [Version 0.9.9MB3]4C Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp [Version 1.34]++ OOO-Water_Weeds.esp [Version 1.33]++ OOO_XiaNewAmulets Addon.esp [Version 0.5]** Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul Vwalk.esp4D ArmamentariumArtifacts.esp [Version 1.35]4E Mart's Monster Mod - Additional Enemy NPC Vars.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]4F FCOM_Convergence.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb3]++ FCOM_EntropicOrderRebalance.esp [Version 0.9.9beta2]50 FCOM_RealSwords.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_DurabilityAndDamage.esp [Version 0.9.9]51 Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]52 Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]53 Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]54 Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]55 Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp [Version 3.7b3p3f]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse Runeskulls Loot OOO.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ FCOM_DiverseGuardUnity.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_HungersUnitySI.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_ArcheryRealSwords.esp [Version 2]** FCOM_FriendlierFactions.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ ArmamentariumLL4OOO.esp [Version 2.01]++ ArmamentariumLLMagicOOO.esp [Version 1.35]56 Geomancy & Gem Dust OOO.esp57 OOO-WaterFish.esp [Version 1.34]++ MMM-Cobl.esp [Version 1.73]** EVE_StockEquipmentReplacer4FCOM.esp58 KnightlyArmory.esp59 00RBScribeSupplies Intensive.esp5A Artifacts.esp** ArtifactsFemaleArmor.esp++ Artifacts - ArmaCompleteAddon.esp [Version 1.0]5B JolardHome.esp [Version 4.7.0]5C Kragenir's Death Quest.esp [Version 2.11]** Kragenir's Death Quest Vwalk.esp5D KDQ - Rural Line Additions.esp5E GlenvarCastle.esp** GlenvarCastle Vwalk.esp5F MTCExpandedVillages.esp60 Slof's Oblivion Goth Shop.esp61 TheElderCouncil.esp** TheElderCouncil Vwalk.esp++ TEC_4ERA_Dialog_Filter.esp62 thievery.esp++ thievery - EE patch.esp [Version 4.2]63 VaultsofCyrodiilBC.esp64 DLCBattlehornCastle.esp65 DLCBattlehornCastle - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.6]66 DLCfrostcrag.esp67 DLCFrostcragReborn.esp** DLCFrostcrag Vwalk.esp68 Knights.esp** Knights - Book Jackets.esp69 Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.1.2]** Knights Vwalk.esp** EVE_KnightsoftheNine.esp6A RTT.esp6B RTT-Weye Relocation Patch.esp [Version 2.0.1]** RTT Vwalk.esp6C Mighty Umbra.esp6D Ungarion1TheWelkyndSword.esp [Version 1.4]6E Origin of the Mages Guild.esp [Version 7.3.1]6F The Mystery of the Dulan Cult.esp++ FCOM_MightyUmbra.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_Knights.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb3]++ FCOM_OMGSRT.esp [Version 0.9.9]70 FCOM_DulanCult.esp [Version 0.9.9]71 MTCThievesGrottoV4.1.esp** MTCThievesGrottoV4.1 Vwalk.esp72 xuldarkforest.esp [Version 1.0.5]73 xulStendarrValley.esp [Version 1.2.2]74 xulTheHeath.esp75 xulEntiusGorge.esp [Version 1.2.1]76 xulFallenleafEverglade.esp [Version 1.3.1]++ TheElderCouncil-FallenleafEverglade patch.esp [Version 1.2]77 xulColovianHighlands_EV.esp [Version 1.2.2]78 ThievesGrotto-ColovianHighlands patch.esp79 xulChorrolHinterland.esp [Version 1.2.3]** xulChorrolHinterland Vwalk.esp7A xulBeachesOfCyrodiilLostCoast.esp [Version 1.6.5]7B xulBravilBarrowfields.esp [Version 1.3.4]** xulBravilBarrowfields Vwalk.esp7C xulLushWoodlands.esp [Version 1.3.2]7D xulAncientYews.esp [Version 1.4.4]7E xulAncientRedwoods.esp [Version 1.6]7F xulCloudtopMountains.esp [Version 1.0.3]80 xulArriusCreek.esp [Version 1.1.4]81 xulPatch_AY_AC.esp [Version 1.1]82 xulRollingHills_EV.esp [Version 1.3.3]** xulRollingHills_EV Vwalk.esp83 xulPantherRiver.esp84 xulRiverEthe.esp [Version 1.0.2]85 xulBrenaRiverRavine.esp [Version 1.1.1]** xulBrenaRiverRavine Vwalk.esp86 xulImperialIsle.esp [Version 1.6.8]** xulImperialIsle Vwalk.esp87 xulBlackwoodForest.esp [Version 1.1.0]88 xulCheydinhalFalls.esp [Version 1.0.1]89 xulAspenWood.esp [Version 1.0.2]** xulAspenWood Vwalk.esp8A xulSkingradOutskirts.esp [Version 1.0.2]** xulSkingradOutskirts Vwalk.esp8B xulSnowdale.esp [Version 1.0.5]8C FrostcragReborn-Snowdale patch.esp++ OOO-Snowdale Patch.esp [Version 1.1]++ MTCExpandedVillages-UniqueLandscapes patch.esp [Version 1.0]8D xulCliffsOfAnvil.esp [Version 1.12]8E OOO-CliffsOfAnvil patch.esp [Version 1.2]** xulCliffsOfAnvil Vwalk.esp8F MMMDungeons-CliffsOfAnvil patch.esp [Version 1.0]90 xulSilverfishRiverValley.esp [Version 1.0.3]91 xulJerallGlacier.esp [Version 1.0.1]92 OOO-JerallGlacier patch.esp [Version 1.0]++ AgainstTheZealotsOfTheNine-JerallGlacier patch.esp [Version 1.0]93 KragenirsDeathQuest-UniqueLandscapes Merged patch.esp [Version 2.0]94 bartholm.esp95 bartholm - EE patch.esp [Version 4.2]** bartholm Vwalk.esp++ Better Cities - House price patch.esp [Version 1.0]96 Natural_Vegetation_by_Max_Tael.esp97 Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp [Version 3.0.0]98 AutoBookPlacer.esp [Version 3.02]99 EVE_ShiveringIslesEasterEggs.esp9A Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 CT.esp9B Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.3 CT.esp++ Improved Fires and Flames - Increased Sound.esp9C ImprovedSoulgems.esp [Version 1.11]9D P1DkeyChain.esp [Version 5.00]++ QuiltsAndWoolBlankets.esp9E Storms & Sound - Bartholm.esp9F Storms & Sound - Better Cities.espA0 talkwithyourhands2.espA1 Toggleable Quantity Prompt.esp [Version 3.2.0]A2 ATakesAll.esp++ Enhanced Economy - House prices.esp [Version 5.4.3]A3 RefScope.esp [Version 2.1.2]A4 MidasSpells.espA5 RenGuardOverhaul.espA6 kuerteeAttributeAndSkillBasedDamageModifiers.espA7 Oblivion XP.esp [Version 4.1.5]** Cava Obscura - Cyrodiil.esp** Cava Obscura - SI.esp** Cava Obscura - Filter Patch For Mods.espA8 _Ren_BeautyPack_full.espA9 bgBalancingEVCore.esp [Version 10.52EV-D]++ EVE_KhajiitFix.esp++ Better Looking Dark Elves.espAA Better Looking Redguards v2.espAB Better Looking Wood Elves COBL.espAC bgMagicEV.esp [Version 1.7EV]** bgMagicEV Vwalk.esp++ bgMagicSpellTomes_for_WryeBash.esp [Version 1.68EV]++ bgMagicItemSigil.esp [Version 1.68EV]++ bgMagicEVStartspells.esp [Version 1.68EV]AD bgMagicBonus.esp [Version 1.7EV]++ bgMagicEVAddEnVar.esp [Version 1.68EV]AE bgMagicEVPaperChase.esp [Version 1.68EV]AF bgMagicAlchemy.esp [Version 1.57]++ bgMagicPotionNumberSoulGemValue.esp [Version 1.68UV]++ bgBalancingEVOptionalFCOMAdditions.esp [Version 10.]B0 bgBalancingEVLAMEAddition.esp [Version 10.51EV-D]++ bgBalancingEVLAMEGlue.esp [Version 10.0EV-D1.62EV]** bgBalancingEVOptionalNPCDiversityLAME.esp [Version 10.5EV-D]B1 bgIntegrationEV.esp [Version 1.0]** bgIntegrationEV Vwalk.esp++ Silverfish&bgIntegrationPatch.espB2 Better Cities Full.esp [Version 5.1.7]B3 Better Cities - VWD of the IC.esp [Version 4.7.0]B4 Better Imperial City.esp [Version 5.1.8]** Better Cities Resources Vwalk.esp++ Better Cities - All Natural.esp [Version 4.9.5]++ Better Cities - Unique Landscape Barrowfields.esp [Version 4.9.5]B5 Better Cities - Ruined Tail's Tale.esp [Version 5.0.0]B6 Better Cities - Unique Landscape Chorrol Hinterland.esp [Version 5.1.0]B7 Better Cities - Knightly Armory.esp [Version 4.8.4]B8 Better Cities - Unique Landscape Cheydinhal Falls.esp [Version 5.0.0]++ Better Cities - Unique Landscape Skingrad Outskirts.esp [Version 5.1.0]B9 Better Cities - Thievery.esp [Version 4.8.0]BA Better Imperial City - OMG.esp [Version 4.7.0]BB Better Cities - COBL.esp [Version 2.1]++ Better Cities - Unique Landscape Imperial Isle.esp [Version 4.8.1]** [GFX]_Initial_Glow-all.esp** [GFX]_Initial_Glow-creatures.esp** bgMagicEVShader.esp [Version 1.7EV]++ bgMagicShaderLifeDetect.esp [Version 1.68]BC bgMagicLightningbolt.esp++ Visually Enchanted Fire 3.esp++ Visually Enchanted Frost 2.esp++ Visually Enchanted Shock 1.espBD Visually Enchanted SoulTrap 1.esp** FCOM_Archery.esp [Version 0.9.9]BE MiniMap.esp** Sensual Walks.esp** Sensual Walks SI.esp** Sensual Walks SI DS + GS.esp++ Cobl Filter Late MERGE ONLY.esp [Version 1.53]** All Natural - Indoor Weather Filter For Mods.esp [Version 1.34]BF Lera's Clothes for Men.espC0 Bashed Patch, 0.esp
It should be worth noting that I was getting a similar issue when I was playing through The Ayleid Steps, but that was fixed by removing the mod. I tried the same with KDQ, which is the same mod I'm playing through right now but the crashes are still very much there.