You can, but the Fighters and the Thieves do have a conflict, because they eventually turn against each other. There is a loop-hole but it's easy to mess up.
Another reason to not join both of them is that they have very different Favored Attributes and Favored Skills, so advancing in Rank can be difficult.
You can join all 7 Guilds if you want, but it's not recommended. Favored Attributes and Skills are too far spread to be able to gain Rank with any ease. It's also confusing and unbalancing to be in that many factions at once, and makes it very hard to roleplay a character who is friends with all these factions that hate each other.
You can only join one of the three Great Houses per character.