So Aedra can never be same as Daedra?
Aedra and Daedra are Aldmeri terms, as seen http://www.imperial-library.info/content/aedra-and-daedra. The main difference between them is that they gave up parts of themselves to create the mortal realm, while the Daedra refused to take part in it. Can they be the same? Not really, but there are a few odd ball cases out there, as seen with Trinimac and Malacath. Arkay and Azura though are completely separate beings. Hell, her artifacts main focus is the trapping of souls, something that drives Arkay bonkers.