Have you payed attention to the stories and dialogue? I half expected the Skyrim game disc to pop out of the console and go down on me during the High Hrothgar quests. Everyone telling you over and over how special "you" are, and how awesome "you" are, and how powerful "you" are. It was ridiculous.
Just my opinion, but it came off very strong in both of the last TES games.
In Oblivion you were basically a sidekick to Martin, and nobody ever really praised you, they just sent you to do the dirty work. Same in Fallout 3, the Lone Wanderer is actually the unluckiest of all the Fallout heroes.
In Skyrim, yeah it's a bit different, but even there the game let you know that in the end you were only a pawn. No army particularly praised you, even if you just won the whole Civil War for them, and barely anyone acknowledges that you defeated Alduin - a good thing really, since there is no way the ordinary citizen could know that you just went to Sovngarde and killed him. I actually felt more "ego stroked" in NV while playing a female Courier. That's to be expected I guess, given the Obsidian team's political views.