dark elf or kahjiit for an assassin character

Dark Elf looks more like an assassin to me, the cat tail gets old eventually.

now male or female dark elf lol

Bosmer,but out of the two you want I would say Dunmer mostle because I don't like the beast races much.
Allthough the kahjiit do have the nice nighteye ability that will help you out on your night time stealth missions.

Probably a Male Dunmer.

Khajiit like to sneak....damn that song! can't get it outta my head now

LOL I remember seeing that video now that you metion it,it almost makes me like the Kahjiit.

Male for sure, no use trying to look pretty to begin with.