You can not progress the story line unless you become a werewolf. You can however cure yourself of it when done and still remain harbinger/all the benefits as if you remained a werewolf. Aela will only give you the gift one more time should you change your mind later on.
I would say since you can become a vampire as many times as you like, do the dawnguard first, companions second, then either cure yourself or just have Serana turn you back into a VL.