It sounds as though you're SO bitter over poor quality-checking that you're incapable of enjoying the game even after it's been patched and 95% of the problems are gone.
The thing about companies leaving bugs in and patching them later is that they're both right and wrong. They're right because bugs are something that CAN be tweaked and fixed later, so releasing a game "pre-maturely" won't actually hurt the quality of the game once all is said and done. They're wrong because it can also be a dike move and the last thing we all want is for buggy releases to be accepted as standard, with devs expecting the community to patch up their games for them.
However what you're failing to note is Obsidian's admittedly limited development time they were handed. The way a company would be "wrong" is if they half-assed bug fixes and released a product prematurely. Obsidian did NOT half-ass quality assurance; they were constrained on time and were running out of options. Bug fixing went to the back of the line of things to do because yes, they CAN stomp bugs later, but they can't exactly add content later. (or if they did, people would cry about that, too) They chose the lesser of two evils, and had no malicious or selfish intent in doing so.
Likewise, if you truly ARE aware of how buggy ALL Bethesda's games are, you'd also recognize that for some odd reason, even though every Bethesda title since Oblivion has been buggy as hell, ONLY Fallout New Vegas received heavy criticism for it, as if everyone simultaneously got amnesia and forgot how buggy Oblivion and Fallout 3 were, and to this day several people refer to New Vegas as buggy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_5qqRwSKbk
My point? Take your bug-stomping agenda elsewhere, New Vegas doesn't need it. It already has more than it's fair share of criticism for it and the lackluster quality assurance was NOT a result of Obsidian's greed; no, it was time constraints. You wanna make a point about "sticking it to the man?" Take your bug-stomping agenda to the Skyrim forums. I promise you they could use it.