Okay, I'm making a dark elf guy name Nils Saren.

I was going to marry Jenassa but it seems her dialog changes and her lip zycning is bad.

The other woman dark elves dont seem to fit. One has her own farm I dont want to take her away from. The one from the college repeats college quest speak. And one is a mportant member of kysgrove I don't want to take away.

What is the most likely race dark elf male would marry if not his own?

I dont really judge on looks cause Im a female.

I thinks its okay if a Dunmer marries a human.

I don't believe its frowned upon.

In Dragonborn there was an old Imperial man married to a Dunmer, who I can't remember the name of now. It's perfectly acceptable for a Dark Elf to do, so long as you don't mind outliving your spouse.

Everyone rags on the Nords/Stormcloaks saying they are racist a-holes, but then all I ever hear on here about marriage is people ONLY wanting to marry their race. Love is LOVE in Skyrim. It doesnt matter what race you are.

My Male Redguard married Muiri and lived happily ever after.

My female Breton married Nord Mjoll the Lioness and lived happily ever after

My female Dark Elf married Jordis and they are happily ever after.

My female Breton married Jordis and lived happily ever after.

My male Orc married Nord Jordis.

My female Breton married Sylgia

My female Redguard married nord Mjoll

My Breton dude married Redguard Senna

My dark vampire lord bada$$ cat dude will probably marry Muiri, Dravynea, Brelyna or Borgark.

Just like in real life, you first must choose someone who physically is attractive to you, race doesnt (shouldnt) matter. Then, after that, figure them out to see if they are compatable witih you.

So first, see if the person is hot. Second, see if they are a fit with you. Then, like all the folks I listed above, you will have a happy marriage.