Uh, you can't blame the OP. It's not as easy for Fox as it is for us. Some of us have been around Oblivion long enough that we saw every major mod come out when it came out. Others have been modding for months-years, it's pretty easy now (unless the game is Fallout New Vegas...). Seeing mods for the first time and how they work is pretty overwhelming, especially if theres a million of them out there to look at.
That being said, I have two things to say. The first is you do not have to read every word of every single readme. I've got the installation process down so well I have never read the installation page except to check what a .esp/.esm does or if I find weird files in the archive. If it is a fomod or 7-zip file/7-zip executable, I open it with 7-zip and familiarize myself with the contents. I make a new folder and paste only the .esms/.esps I want with the meshes, textures, sounds, .bsa's, etc. the mod needs. I convert that new folder into an archive and activate it with nexus mod manager. This way, no matter what the mod is, I'll have it worked out how to install and even if it replaces things without a .esp or .esm I can deactivate it with NMM and have it uninstalled without having to read the uninstallation page (although sometimes it doesn't seem to remove or deactivate the .esm - perhaps glitch). You'll have to worry about load order later when you have conflicting mods. The conflicts section of a readme is very important. As is the description. However, both things can often be skimmed through if you're careful, you don't need to read word for word. You can ignore the credits and permissions if you don't care and the readme has been convinced to a paragraph a piece (except for major overhauls).
Secondly, you absolutely cannot download anymore mods until you understand what OOO does (if thats the O-something). You NEED to know pretty much everything or you WILL get conflicts. The same rule applies for every single major overhaul out there.
Lastly, good luck. Add one mod at a time - not a hundred everytime you run the game and you'll be fine. If there's a problem, make sure you installed it in a way that makes it easy to remove so you can try again.