So I have this problem, which obviusly is known (looking at the Wiki), but I did not find any solution. I married Ysolde and told her she should move inte windhelm with the kid and she confirms it. Well she does not do it. She just walks back to her home and stays there. I cannot make her a follower because she just keeps walking. The only way to get her actually followin me is the "I need you to do something" line, which lets her follow me around, but as soon as I stop having it activated she starts walking back home. I even tried to teleport her to me via the moveto command, but she instantly starts walking back to whiterun. She even does it if she is severly wounded. I deactivated every mod that in any way modifies the spouses or the follower framework (which is a bugger by the way) but she just continues to wak home. I cannot get her to move either to windhlem or to whiterun breezehome. Is there any way to fix this?

(Yeah I have a lot of mods installed, but that never was a problem in other savegames until I installed dragonborn)