
Put most of your points in Magicka. You will need it. Don't chose any dual casting perks until you reach level 60+ in whatever school of magic you are using. By then you should have the magicka you need to manage dual casting. Learn first how to use the spells in each hand, then you will be ready for dual casting. You won't need more than 150 health. A mage stays away from melee range, so you should not be getting hit.
Level up your conjuration and join the College of Winterhold. There you will find the conjuration expert (Phinos Gestor). He will sell Storm Atronachs and Dremora Lords when your skill is at 70. They are expensive both Septims and Magicka wise.
If you meet someone in a tavern wearing black robes and challenging you to a drinking contest, do it. Do his quest for a powerful staff a conjurer will find very, very useful.
Familiar: Once you reach level 5, they're worthless.
Flame Atronach: They are fantastic against Frost Trolls, and lesser Trolls. They offer mediocore ranged support. Do not expect them to tank though.
Frost Atronach: This is your tank. Get Elemental potency at conjuration 80 to unlock his true tank potential. He doesn't deal good damage though... but he's a great iceberg keeping enemies from reaching you. He can also stun-lock a Legendary Dragon to submission if their AI spams their power attack.
Storm Atronach: Ranged support, and the bane of mages, the destroyer of Electromancers. In melee scenarios they are also quite capable, but they excel at range.
Dremora Lord: http://i.imgur.com/q8ZM0Tz.jpg Period.
Seriously though, if you can summon Dremora Lords, then no savage can mess with you. If you have twin souls perk, having two Dremora Lords will make you essentially invincible as long as you stay out of your enemies' reach.
There are also other useful summons if you have Dawnguard and Dragonborn DLC.