On Vivec's side of the equation, remember that he either considers himself the Anticipation of Mephala, or he considers Mephala to be his Anticipation (I honestly keep forgetting which way this is supposed to go). As far as the Temple's doctrine is/was concerned, Vivec is the godly coming of Mephala, or the god that Mephala was supposed to be, or something. And Mephala, as a Daedric Prince, has existed longer than Creation.
That said, while Mephala and Vivec are considered aspects of one another in many ways, they are also acknowledged as different beings--but on the other hand, so are Talos and Lorkhan. So... does that help?