I have this quest which activates everytime my health gets low, where I awake shivering in the wilderness.

Not only is this quest very [censored] and stupid, because even when you do it the 2nd 3rd 4th time, your equipment is always in the same cave full of previously murdered thugs. Who the hell is keep taking your stuff back to a cave of dead men? Also the quest is singlehandedly the only cause for ctd's in my entire skyrim experience. And it totally stops me from ever being able to continue the battle beyond the remaining 10% of my health (Which is a lot of hitpoints on a character with huge health) and it destroys immersion by plucking you up from your current quest and forcing you to earn 100 gold to bribe some man to be able to then proceed to collect your equipment.

I want to know how to stop /abort this quest from never ever happening again.

Sounds like http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/29312/?.

Do you use Nexus Mod Manager to install mods? If so, then you can check through the mods via the Mods tab and reading the information in the window that appears on the right side of the NMM when you select a specific mod.

thanks for that.. it is actually the no death mod. i had that confused with the no spinning death animation mod, which is why i didn;t notice it..

thanks again : )