I've heard various sources disagree on whether a spouse or steward joined to the blades will still live with you, or in Sky Haven Temple. Let's say I want the people I'm living with to have the armor set as their standard (I'm going for sort of a Dojo thing with my Hearthfire home). Will they leave me if they become blades after I marry/hire them? Will they leave the temple if I make them blades first, and then marry/hire them? Those who've delt with this, your imput is welcome and appreciated.