So I'm making my new character into a "fallen hero". That way I can do all of the quests and story arcs rp wise, both good and evil. I have it thought out that he will turn to the dark side after his wife dies, and he will blame the divines for her death. If you've played Castlevania: Lament of Innocence, then it's the same story that Mathias goes through when he becomes Dracula. My question is, is there any way to get your wife killed in game without doing it yourself? Like in Hearthfire when she gets kidnapped by bandits, can she die there? Anyone got any ideas?

A certain Housecarl murders her.(illusion)

Not sure what that means.

So....

the solution to his problem

Ah, summon an oblivion gate to capture your bride, while 2 jedis fight till the end of times...

couldnt say it better

That would be my plan as well.