*I quote Emissary Elenwen( http://cs.uesp.net/index.php?game=sr&formid=0x000e16f4 ):
As long as the Empire continues to uphold its treaty obligations, my government does not concern itself with the internal politics of Skyrim.
And since the Empire clearly isn't upholding it's treaty obligations we're here to help. The fact that our agent is the reason the Empire can't uphold its obligations is certainly convenient for us, isn't it?
*I quote Emissary Elenwen( http://cs.uesp.net/index.php?game=sr&formid=0x000e16f4 ):
As long as the Empire continues to uphold its treaty obligations, my government does not concern itself with the internal politics of Skyrim.
But since our agent has made that impossible for the Empire here we are, and the treaty forces you to allow us to operate freely since you clearly can't uphold your part of the deal.
Bottom line, the treaty cuts both ways. If Skyrim was at peace and not full of wild eyed Talos worshipers publicly flaunting the law the Empire could pressure the Thalmor to back off...but it isn't at peace and it is full of lawbreakers, so the Thalmor are not going away.
Prepare for the next Elven war, quietly worshiping whoever you want in your own homes...men have a chance. Squander resources on a civil war, elves win the next war hands down. If I hadn't disliked the Altmer all the way from Morrowind on I'd probably side with them out of respect for their cleverness.
But as I said this is the view from outside the game. In the game I can play a character on either side of the civil war.