I heard that some wives don't like Lakeview Manor so which wives like it then?

I think the only spouses that like ALL houses are the ones with the YoungFemaleEager and YoungMaleEager voicetypes. So if you want to be sure to have a non-complaining wife, take your pick from Ysolda, Sylgja, Jordis, Muiri, Camilla Valerius, Brelyna Maryon and maybe someone else I've forgotten about. Only Ysolda, Sylgja and Jordis are Nords though.

I still find it bizarre that Aela the Huntress thinks something is wrong with you for choosing Lakeview.

I wish that Hearthfire had allowed us to move spouses and families into Jorrvaskr or the Archmage Quarters.

Ysolda is a drug dealing milkdrinker, I'd rather kill Sylgja's father and marry her mother, and Jordis requires me to become the thane in Solitude instead of Falkreath. Thanks for the help though guess I'll just randomly pick one of them. Now I just need to figure out what wings I want to build there and what to do with Heljarchen Hall now.

Or any of the female warrior spouses seeing how they CAN defend themselves, compared spouses like Ysolda or Sylgja. Also I think the Archmage's Quarters is too small to raise a family, but I'd love to see the dialouge for both the wife and kids for living in Jorrvaskr.

Lydia, Jordis, Ysolda or Annekke's daughter.

Lydia doesn't complain? In that case, the OP can add any marriable npc with her voice to his list.