Which one is the up-to-date recommended "Go To" horses mod or combination of horse mods?

I am not into horses at all in all my current SK games, but my next character is going to be I want something simple: horse should not die all the time while going into dungeons, it should be useable as packmule and have some control options like "wait here", "follow me" and whistle/calling for it - or have a map marker in case it wanders off and you have no idea where it went. Mounted fighting is not a requirement - if there is, fine. If there is not, I can do without.

I see there is Convenient Horses which seems to be the "complete solution", but it is not being updated. I have read reports on Nexus that un-installing it can be problematic. The lighter the additional script load, the better I think.

I'd be thankful for some pointers as I'm really clueless about horses mods.

Convenient Horses is the big one.

http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/15225/ might be worth looking into as a lighter-weight and well-regarded alternative. Convenient Horses is indeed the gold standard in terms of functionality, and the lack of updates to me is more because it doesn't need them than a sign of problems. But it does add script load, and some of its additions are going to be too much, or unnecessary, for some players.

Kuertee for me too.

None intrusive mod that is no problem to remove.

Updates and very active in threads posts etc.

Gotta love Kuertee's mods