how the heck do we contact moderators? every time i try to message one it says i don't have privilege to do that ? but when you look at the HELP for it it just says send them a PM to talk to them , makes no sense

I think you need like 5 - 10 posts to use the PM service.

You need to perform the Black Sacrament.

Its really stupid , cant get any help on this damn thing, try to get help and cant so i wanted to end my account , well wait cant figure that out either and cant get help for that either but guess its to be expected

One more post, newbie, one more and you may be able to message them.

Or the Black Sacrament might work as suggested

I'll try a couple of things to get the ball rolling. You might just need a certain amount of posts before some functions are enabled on here. I'm sending you a PM now - you ought to be able to respond if I initiate it. If you don't receive on or can't respond, then you can send in a report and we can answer your question that way.