I have decided to make a list of good and lore friendly abodes for roleplaying. Please feel free to make suggestions to add to the list.
Requirements:
-Must be Lore friendly.
-Must not be too over the top. (http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/41612/? or http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/11803/?)
-Must not modify or completely overshadow one of Skyrim's major landmarks. (No castles on High Hrothgar. If you're going to live there, it's going to be in either a cave or with the Graybeards.)
-Must fit in seamlessly with the game world. (A massive castle in Whuterun's tundra is going to stick out like a sore thumb.)
-No nudity or advlt content. (Obviously.)
Now, onto the mods...
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/49723/? - Adds various hideouts and hidey holes throughout Skyrim's wilderness.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/50300/? - Adds a small hidden shelter in Windhelm that is great for a beggar or Dunmer refugee character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/50067/? - Gray Quarter apartment, good for a high class Dunmer.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/23168/? - Gray Quarter apartment, good for your average Dunmer in Windhelm.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/35527/? - Small lair in Falkreath, good for a thief or druid character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/33473/? - Fortified mansion good for a lord or nobleman character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/8684/? - Fortified estate outside of Riverwood.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/22133/? - Adds a small fort outside of Rorikstead.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/49343/? - Adds a very small fort outside of Whiterun, good for a Priest of Arkay or maybe a necromancer.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/13764/? - An abandoned Orc stronghold. Perfect for an Orc chieftain character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/48898/? - Turns Sinderion's field lab into a viable player home.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/25622/? - Perfect for a bandit character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/14363/? - Abandoned caravan, good for a bandit, thief, or hunter character.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/14776/? - Abandoned caravan, good for a Dunmer refugee.
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/14414/? - Abandoned caravan, good for a hunter or alchemist.
Please add suggestions and help me add more to this list.