Hello, im zhelfreakz and i want to ask how to build a bed and im new thank you haha xD

you can't just build a bed wherever you want.
you can buy a house or pay for a room in an inn.
if you have Hearthfire and you want to build a bed in the house you need to go upstairs and use the workbench found there. or pick the bedroom option and use the bedroom workbench.

Ah, the eternal question.

Simply put, you can't without mods. You can only get mods on PC because consoles like their intellectual property untainted, as well as hardware limitations. Either buy a house in one of the cities (speak to the jarls, in the castles) and buy furniture upgrades that include a bed (the default ones are no good) or join a faction (Companions, Dark Brotherhood, College of Winterhold, etc.). You can also find beds in camps and caves in the wilderness, and most forts too. Oh, and Garrus has covered Hearthfire.

Before you go, have a fishe na h-Sticke.

Any npc you do a favor/quest for is a potential for a bed,also the food/items in the house.pickpocket their key,or take it from them as follower.Example,at the Bannered mare ,punch out Uthgerd,have her follow you,then take her key.Lots of beds and free crap in skyrim.

The quickest and easiest way to get a free bed is to goto Whiterun, goto Jorvaskr and join the companions, after you do 1 or 2 very quick quests, they'll give you a bed you can use for free, anytime you want

PS: can someone please give the opp his fishystick ?

I've delivered a fishy stick, but without knowledge of the URL I am afraid my package may turn out to be empty.

Have a fishy stick http://i.imgur.com/ZRpwOiz.jpg

M'aiq now knows who stole all his fishy sticks.

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Beds can only be found in Inns, player homes, NPC homes, etc.

Whaaaaat?No man,I'd never steal anything!