I have been wanting to post this for some time now but finally got myself to it. So first some background story. Bethesda is responsible for some of the best games that I have ever played and I have played quite a few, the games I am mainly going to talk about are Oblivion, Skyrim and Fallout 3. Three of my favourite games that I have completed every assignment and mission in so I would place myself above your average casual Elder Scrolls player. But I have found one problem, one huge problem that I can never get out of my mind that have haunted me through particularly these three games.
That problem is my failure to connect to any of the characters in the game, both minor and mayor characters. So I will now break this down for you with a couple of examples. Some minor spoilers here but nothing too serious, still you might want to rethink your continued reading if you haven't completed the games.
What first got me thinking in this path was Fallout 3. Fallout 3 starts you off as you know in Vault 101, the story eventually leads up to a grand escape from the vault with your childhood friend Amata Almodovar. My first thought was "This could lead up to an amazing love interest as a side-story". So when was going to return to the Vault I was thinking "I will probably get Amata out of there now and she could move in with me!" happy thoughts! Oh were I in for a disappointment. She just stays of reasons I have forgotten now, although I have heard that you can see her wander around and even get killed by Deathclaws... then there is your father that could have been made so much better and emotional, and the only one I connect to is Fawkes and Sarah Lyons.
Then we have Skyrim, I was so excited for that release and I know that I wasn't alone, and I wasn't disappointed, it was everything we could dream about and more! And you could have a partner! I could get myself a wife! Finally Bethesda seemed to add more emotions into the game... yeah... you all know where I am going. That is by far the most depressing excuse for a marriage I have ever seen. She stays home, mostly sitting on a chair everyday... and she sells me stuff... put a vendor in my house and it would be exactly the same. At least in Fable you get to kiss your wife and have a good time, here you can buy supper from her at best. The only one I bond with in Skyrim on an emotional and caring basis is Lydia and she barely talks to me, but at least she seem to care about my safety.
And don't get me started with Oblivion that doesn't have a single character I care about, if they die I will shrug my shoulders and move on. And this is a bitter sence to me how loves when my whole emotional spectrum flares when I play games. So many events in other games have had me almost crying and three of my favourite games can't manage to make me feel anything. Sure I feel awe for the landscape, fear for the creatures and accomplishment for my deeds, but I am strictly talking about the characters.
Take Mass Effect for example which genrewise is comperable. There you really bond with your crewmembers and you get to know them on personal basis. Take other characterdriven games, GTA, Masterchief/Cortana, Gears of War Dominic/Marcus, Final Fantasy. The list can go on forever.
Now I want your input! Maybe you know something that I don't on the subject, maybe you agree or disagree, but I sure want your take on this matter. Do you want Bethesda to keep this in mind in the future or are you content with how it is now?