Note: this is all on PS3

I've been trying and trying to find a way to get my follower ability back, but so far nothing has worked.

I tried getting the Dragon Seeker quest from companions, but with 15 tries I gave up. Then I moved on to committing crimes and spending the night in jail but that didn't work either. Nothing seems to work. Has anyone tried to go into settings and delete the updates, then log in?

I'm thinking marriage would do it, any experiences?