Don't know about the first question, but i can go into the question about Mankar. Technically speaking it's unknown, there was a son named Mankar but since his mother was a Bosmer he would've been a Bosmer as well, since that's how genetics work for at least the playable races in the games. However, considering the Mankar in Oblivion managed to modify his own ancestry so he was never really born in the first place, severing all ties with his own mother, it could be he even changed his race to Altmer to further sever the biological ties. So it could very well be he was formerly Haymon's son before the biological ties were severed.