I started to do some research and came upon some possible solutions. I disable autosave, delete my old saves, delete game data utilit and none seem to work, so that's when I decided to try the PS3 safe mode and restored my system file and rebuild my database but still the problems persisted. so for some reason I tried to Restore File System once again and that's when I got this infinite message "the hard disk has been corrupted and will be restored" made some research and the only fix was to Restore my PS3. With no backup of saved files I was gonna have to start Skyrim once again (it didn't bother me mutch since I couldn't complete "Reunification of Skyrim" quest due to bug.
Restored my PS3 thinking all was going to be back to normal and to my surprise the game was as bugged as before. Tried to make it work (playing Skyrim with my Ipad on my lap to have something to do while I waited on the loads, thats when it didn't crash) did that for about 2hrs not remembering that I had autosave off I was killed. and was send back to the beggining. That's when I knew I was done with Bethesda/Skyrim