There is no program that looks at your load order and tells you which mods are conflicting with each other and causing crashes. If there is, it was written by the Easter Bunny.
My game is not that stable. It is FCOM + Armamentarium + Maskar's. More often than not I can get through an entire game session without crashing, praise Talos. But there are some times. I can remember being in a cave, the one that is full of animals and there is supposed to be a spider queen or some such boss. It crashed in there more than once. I have also run into corrupt spawn crashes, which is no modders fault but Oblivion itself.
Anything else I can do to further stabilize my game? I am running / have done:
Latest OBSE
Oblivion Stutter Remover with bReplaceHeap and fps limiter turned off
Cleaned every file with TES4Edit that LOOT recommends ( LOOT is the new BOSS )
Wrye Bashed a bashed patch, and no items are seen red in Wrye Bash / everything looks fine
4GB patch
LAA patched the Oblivion.exe
Read and obeyed the updated FCOM files
Using lower poly grass meshes
Windowed mode with fake fullscreen
Kept a log describing each mod added, removed, and noted crashes for a ban list
Using the default uGridsToLoad == 5
Prayed to Talos and gave back all the sweetrolls I've stolen
Banned Unique Landscapes
Using Unofficial Patch for Oblivion, Shivering Isles, and all the other dlc
Turned off autosaving
aaaaaand... I think that's it
Then there's my specs:
Asus P5K-E Wifi Edition motherboard
Intel Core2Duo 3.0GHz
4GB RAM
GTX 660
Using onboard sound on Asus P5K-E
And for last, my load order that takes 6 minutes to bash in Wrye Bash before reaching the results screen:
00 Oblivion.esm
01 Fundament.esm [Version ision]
02 CM Partners.esm
03 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm [Version 1.35Beta]
04 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm [Version 5.0]
05 Mart's Monster Mod.esm [Version 3.8b1]
06 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.73]
07 cssBase.esm
08 Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm [Version 5.0]
09 FCOM_Convergence.esm [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
0A Armamentarium.esm [Version 1.35]
++ BetterExplosions.esp
** Beautiful_Women_NotSoNice_Bonus.esp
** Beautiful_Women_SI.esp
** Beautiful_Women_DB_Addon.esp
0B Bundlement.esp [Version ision]
** Handsome_Gents_DB_Addon.esp
** Handsome_Gents_Bonus.esp
0C Toggleable Quantity Prompt.esp [Version 3.2.0]
0D Beautiful_Women_NiceOnly.esp
++ USIPS Additional Changes.esp
0E StaggerRecoil&HitStop.esp
0F WindowLightingSystem.esp
++ Mart's Monster Mod - Less Bone Loot.esp [Version 3.8b1]
++ FCOM_ArcheryArmamentarium.esp [Version 2]
** Fransfemale.esp
10 UnidirectionalAttack.esp
11 FormID Finder4.esp
++ Francesco's No Reduced Backwards Running.esp
12 Francesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.esp [Version 5.0]
13 nGCD.esp
14 My Companion Rings for 2 Companions.esp
** Handsome_Gents_Addon.esp
15 Companion Compatibility.esp
16 Maskar's Oblivion Overhaul.esp [Version 3.3]
** Handsome_Gents_SI.esp
17 DLCShiveringIsles.esp
18 kuerteeAttributeAndSkillBasedDamageModifiers.esp
++ Mart's Monster Mod - Less Reavers.esp [Version 3.8b1]
19 Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.4.3]
1A Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp [Version 1.35Beta]
1B FCOM_DurabilityAndDamage.esp [Version 0.9.9]
1C ShockAnimChange.esp
1D Shining Creatures.esp [Version 1.2]
1E Enemy Actors Use Powers 0.1.1.esp
1F Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]
20 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 1.34]
21 AAbuiesdaqun.esp
++ nGCD Skeleton Key.esp
22 Oblivion Citadel Door Fix.esp
23 Glowing Respawning Varla & Welkynd Stones 7-14 Days.esp
24 Mart's Monster Mod - No Carrion Rats.esp [Version 3.8b1]
++ Mart's Monster Mod - RadiantAITweaks.esp
25 MigMiscellanea.esp [Version 1.5]
26 nGCD Oghma Infinium.esp
27 Phitt's Phighting Phixes.esp
28 Streamline 3.0.esp
29 Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.5.2]
++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]
2A Better Dungeons.esp
2B FCOM_Convergence.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb8b1]
2C Mart's Monster Mod - Mummies.esp
++ ArmamentariumLL4OOO.esp [Version 2.01]
** Armamentium female.esp
++ FCOM_LessReaversInGates.esp [Version 0.9.9]
2D Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp [Version 5.0]
2E Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]
2F EVE_ShiveringIslesEasterEggs.esp
++ Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.8b1]
** OMOBS_SI.esp [Version 2.0]
30 Oblivion WarCry EV.esp [Version 1.09]
** EVE_StockEquipmentReplacer4FCOM.esp
** FCOM_Archery.esp [Version 1.0]
31 Knights.esp
++ All Natural RL - DLC Patch.esp
32 Oblivifall - Ambiant Dungeon SFX.esp [Version 3.0]
33 Cobl Races.esp [Version 1.52]
++ Better Looking Dark Elves.esp
34 Better Looking Redguards v2.esp
++ MaleBodyReplacerV5.esp
++ EVE_KhajiitFix.esp
35 Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp [Version 5.0]
36 Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp [Version 3.8b1]
37 Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.1.3]
** EVE_KnightsoftheNine.esp
** Knights_MOBS.esp [Version 2.0]
38 FCOM_WarCry.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
39 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.73]
3A DLCThievesDen.esp
3B DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp [Version 1.0.11]
3C DLCMehrunesRazor.esp
3D DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.6]
3E DLCFrostcrag.esp
3F DLCVileLair.esp
++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp [Version 3.0.0]
** Mehrunes_MOBS.esp [Version 2.0]
40 DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.9]
41 ImperialManor.esp
42 CM Partners.esp
43 Cyrodiil Travel Services.esp [Version 3.0.5]
44 DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.8]
++ Shining Creatures_DLCFrostcrag.esp
45 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.11]
46 AmbientTownSounds.esp
47 Echo_ChapelChant.esp
48 Bandit Hideouts.esp
49 DLCHorseArmor.esp
4A DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.8]
4B DLCSpellTomes.esp
4C DLCOrrery.esp
4D DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
4E DARaewyn.esp
4F cssSafana.esp [Version 1.0]
50 cssSarevok.esp [Version 1.0]
51 DADemons.esp
52 Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp [Version 3.8b1]
53 Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]
54 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp [Version 5.0]
++ FCOM_Francescos.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
++ ArmamentariumLLMagicOOO.esp [Version 1.35]
55 Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
56 Creature Diversity.esp
57 FCOM_BobsArmory.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
++ ArmamentariumLLVendors.esp [Version 1.35]
58 FCOM_RealSwords.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8]
59 FCOM_ArcheryRealSwords.esp [Version 1]
5A ExnemRuneskulls.esp
++ FCOM_ExnemRuneskulls.esp [Version 0.9.9]
++ FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
5B FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp [Version 0.9.9MB8b1]
++ FCOM_LessRats.esp [Version 0.9.9]
++ FCOM_SaferRoads.esp [Version 0.9.9]
5C KDCircletsOOOOptimized - NPC Equip.esp [Version 1.2]
++ FCOM_KDCircletsOOOOptimizedNPCEquip.esp [Version 0.9.9]
5D Loth's Blunt Weapons for Npcs.esp
++ FCOM_LothsBluntWeapons.esp [Version 0.9.9]
** ThievesDen_MOBS.esp [Version 2.0]
** SW01.esp
5E Ragna Parry V2.esp
** SWalk.esp
5F UOPS Additional Changes.esp
** VileLair_MOBS.esp [Version 2.0]
60 X.Races.Comp.esp
61 Bashed Patch, 0.esp
Any responses are much appreciated.