I'm having marriage issues in skyrim. I recently reinstalled hearthfire in order to rebuild my house, as well as additional mods. One of them, "lovely jessica" was uninstalled while I mas married to her (I think). I reinstalled her because I couldn't find her. I followed the steps I found online which were to first input "resetquest RelationshipMarriage", drop the amulet, enter "setstage Relationship Marriage 10" and buy a new amulet from the priest of Mara in Riften. I then traveled to several "marriable" NPCs like Jessica (my mod), Ysolda, and more. They all make some comment about my amulet and how it's amazing I'm not married, but there are no further dialog options regarding marriage.

Does the game still think I am married to Jessica from when I had her installed previously? How can I just COMPLETELY make it so that I have had no record of marraige. If perhaps I am married to someone else and I forgot, how can I locate my spouse? I believe I heard some woman in Whiterun make a comment about me wearing an amulet of mara when I walked buy, and it was something like, "Does your wife know you're wearing that?". If my spouse is alive, how do I find her?

Sorry for the wall of text, and if I posted this in the wrong area. I've never posted in these forums before. Hopefully those of you here are more helpful than those at r/skyrim, or steam.Thank you guys!

EDIT: My formatting was messed up.